Everyone on both sides of this “debate” really overstates their case and sounds like a total drama queen.
The reality is, if you daily drive a manual long enough, it becomes second-nature and you don’t really notice or think about shifting in regular/boring/rush hour traffic driving conditions. I never had problems daily driving manuals (including through lower Westchester traffic) for 10+ years. I also don’t really miss shifting anymore when I’m just sitting in traffic. Human beings are pretty adaptable, having to push in a clutch every now and then isn’t going to ruin your life.
Drive what you want to drive.
I came home from work one day last summer to find a handwritten note tucked under one of the wipers on my Miata. It was a pretty standard “call me if you’re interested in selling” note. Looked up the person who left the note, it’s one of those like paid-to-be-hot IG/Tik-Tok girls. Absolutely last demographic I ever expected to give a shit about an NA Miata (or live in a sleepy rural lake town in the middle of nowhere, for that matter)