This is an excellent article by Cathy Young, exposing some of the widespread misandry within feminism.

I don’t agree with every point she makes. I think the 1848 demonizing of men is way more serious and shouldn’t be so easily dismissed. But that doesn’t take away from her main point: feminism is full of misandry, and if they want to be taken seriously by men, they need to address that.

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      Except feminism is not biased against men as individuals, it does not even deal with individuals rather it addresses systemic problems.

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        feminism is not biased against men as individuals

        Oh great! It’s just biased against us as a gender.

        You know, that’s still sexism.

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          The effects of feminism are clearly biased against men.

          Not sure what you mean? They are “biased” in the sense that the societal structures favored men and feminism challenged that. But that is also the whole point.

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              I think you would have to convince me that “societal structures” do in fact favor men. I don’t think they do.

              You would kind of have first to look at societal structures when feminism came up. Those obviously changed dramatically (at least in the west) but so did feminism.

              my son has been turned away from several classes and trips.

              Sounds wild to me, living in Germany.

              Men get higher prison sentences than women for the same crimes.

              How exactly is feminism responsible for that?

              Women get preferential placement and additional resources in education and employment if it is believed that women are under represented,

              Which is bad because?

              Men are under represented in higher education enrollment

              Due to systematic discrimination or because they chose other opportunities?

              Men pay more in taxes

              Why do men pay more taxes, is it an US thing - definitely not the case in Germany for example.

              and receive fewer benefits from government services than women.

              Again how would this be related to feminism. Are feminist running USA? Trump? Joe Biden? For real?!

              Men in the US have to sign up for selective service, women do not. As a man I would not feel safe calling the police if I was attacked by a woman, the police are more likely to arrest/assault me than my assailant.

              You literally describe how patriarchy is negatively affecting men. Which is also criticized by feminism. Maybe you need to read a bit.

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                  Why punish me and my son for a situation I had no benefit from?

                  Again I don’t see how you, or your son are being punished by feminism. My point was also more about that feminism has a history of addressing societal power structures though the lens of gender. Obviously it will have some outdated elements, but it is being constantly evolved to address more modern problems women - and if you go into more modern version marginalized groups in general experience.

                  f anything, contemporary feminism is doubling down on demonizing men and insisting on yet more special benefits for women.

                  Would be curious to read up how intersectional feminism is demonizing men.

                  Feminists are still actively fighting for lower penalties for women while ignoring the plight of incarcerated men. Scotland is trying to get rid of women’s prisons entirely. Women get sympathy, men get the stick.

                  How are lower penalties for women related to feminism, that does not make any sense. Isn’t it more the tradtional societal view of men being the violent and aggressive ones that is responsible for men getting an unfair treatment when it comes to sentencing?

                  You don’t know what the reason is, and no one much cares. When men outnumbered women, changes were made. Now that women outnumber men, you stopped caring. Ta da, feminism!

                  But the reason would be the whole point. Is there a systemic disadvantage, then the state needs to intervene - no need to intervene in personal choice. Women choosing to be a stay at home mom, no need to intervene. Women having to stay at home because they have no other realistic choices. That’s bad.

                  they earn more because of social expectations

                  So there is a pay gap, you might say - pretty sure feminism is addressing that issue.

                  I think it highlights the fact that more is expected from men

                  But again feminism also deals with expectation put by society on men. For a personal example: I was raised by a rather feminist mother - and I don’t really feel any societal pressure on me as a man. Because that’s not what I tie my value as human being to.

                  Male suicide and homelessness is are major current issues,

                  That is an issue, but again - how is feminism at fault? This is more tied into USA being very neo liberal and having very little social market economy elements, which can greatly reduce the pressure on an individual.

                  can you stop for a moment and ask if feminism did anything to oppose it?

                  Sure, feminism is challenging the whole structure that is responsible for the most problems you describe. You talk about the pressure of societal pressure men feel - where does it come from. From feminist world view or from the conservative world view. Does feminism expect men to be the sole earner for a family?

                  Patriarchy is a theory that can’t be tested, nor can it make any useful predictions. It’s an idea that men rule for the benefit of men, but that’s clearly not happening. I think oligarchy or plutocracy are closer to what you see, but it’s just easier to blame men.

                  Patriarchy is not a theory it an observation of power structures. You can doubt of how much of it is left in modern times, but come on: women could not vote, work, study or be practically an independent adult for quite the long time in history and still can’t in some parts of the world. It’s silly to claim that there was never a power dis balance between men an women.