So they discovered they had locked themselves in harder than expected, and concluded they should stay locked in. That’s… one strategy you choose, I guess.

I’m all for smashing patriarchy and a part of me agrees with you on sex being “just another activity”. But I’d be very interested to hear other people’s thoughts on my argument about rape vs beating!

Rape is worse than beating, because sex is a uniquely intimate activity. The intimacy is what makes the commercialization of sex so fragile. The chances of sex work and porn turning out sustainably healthy are so narrow.

Auto play is the Devil