okay, ive gotten a reply from DB Schenker they have confirmed the package is in Malmö, and are getting it ready to be transported. So for any swedes reading this, dont just check the GLS page, find your DB schenker tracking number, it should be on the GLS page in the email link, and if you go down to parcel & shipping information, click “international”, and in the next page there should be a big column with several tracking numbers, one of them being the DB Schenker one, and then head to the DB Schenker tracking page. Also - the swedish DB Schenker facebook messenger support is very quick to respond and helpful.
Mine is stuck there too but I checked DB Schenker tracking and mine seems to have arrived in malmö , or at least according to the DB schenker Facebook support.