This is awesome. Anyways, fun question: What other parts of your identity affect your biastophilia? Do you have another paraphilia inherently tied to this one? Any other asexual or aspecs with this? Are you just biasto, just auto-biasto, or both? Tell me the things! (Try to keep it mildly sfw/chill or ‘educational’ in a sense. :)
I suppose all of my paraphilias exist as cross sections, that can overlap but don’t necessarily always do, it depends on what I feel like fantasizing about. A couple examples of kinks I like to use alongside biasto would be hebe, meso, exhibitionism, sadism, masochism, abuse, and filth.
When it comes to how my biastophilia is, I guess I’m a bit of an odd one. The classic unequivocal depiction of rape does in fact not interest me, it actually turns me off. What I like is public groping, intention of rape from the abuser, coercion, extortion, etc. with the victim either enjoying it or enjoying in due time. Regarding any trauma they might develop from it, I’d want them to develop unhealthy coping mechanisms, more sex, alcohol, unhinged spiraling, etc. From what I’ve seen dub-con falls under biasto, but if anyone knows a better paraphilia to cover this, please do let me know. And much like cutekowala, I am also interested in both the biasto and autobiasto perspective. I exclusively use people that are aesthetically attractive to me to fantasize about, which in turn in the fantasy are sexually attracted to each other.
Dubcon is very valid of you (and yes it fits well under biasto, i think a specific dubcon label would almost be under the umbrella more so). This was cool to read, thank you.
Oh I also forgot to include that I am almost exclusive about dubcon. I don’t find either fully nonconsensual or fully consensual dynamics very appealing at all.