• Juice@midwest.social
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    15 hours ago

    Another example of how the manosphere is actually a way to confuse young men without dating experience into making themselves less attractive, so their resentment toward women who dont accept them despite “doing all the rigjt things” can be politically weaponized to reorient these men into fascist social reality

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    So Asmongold is peak manosphere?

    Yeah, that tracks, uneducated bigot paid off by Israel using their exact talking points and has no original thoughts of his own.

    Please, other men out there, teach your fellows what “masculinity” should be. Emotionally available and strong, using your strength to help others around you, protecting others less fortunate than yourself. What is the point of the privilege you lucked into if not to use it to help lift others up who aren’t as privileged? And also learn to be strong and supportive. You have a lot of sway in everyday life over others. Learn to stand back and let others lead, learn to amplify others voices and use your strength to support them.

    We really fucked up letting this whole machismo bs run rampant, making so many men, myself included, feel like we’re failures if we’re not uber successful in a broken capitalist system.

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    This was pretty common with women when I was in university. They said deodorant causes breast cancer so that’s why they don’t shower or shave.

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    This is, once again, an instance of some women having a fetish and then the manosphere trying to project this onto all women.

    They are not capable of understanding that different women are different, they really believe that all women are the same and that if they have the right cheat codes they can make women do whatever they want. Women are not people to them.

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      Yeah being into post workout or “hasn’t showered yet today” smell is honestly kinda common, especially on someone you already are into and like the smell of. Not showering at all or letting it keep going is however a rare variant, and even the common version is by no means universal.

      And speaking as someone repulsed by testosteronized bo, please keep the post workout smell to those who’ve requested it

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    Seems like good advice.

    It lets women know which men are listening to these influencers.

    Also: pheromones? Why does that continue to get airtime each generation? The organ that processes pheromones in most mammals isn’t functional in humans, and most people cover the inside of their noses with so much artificial scent that they can’t smell anything subtle anyway. So all you get from that is the stink of bacterial byproducts.

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      The organ that processes pheromones in most mammals isn’t functional in humans

      I think the main issue is that there’s no such thing as human pheromones… so whether we might be able to perceive them if they existed is entirely academic.

      We are however capable of smelling body odours, and some of them are linked to sexual attraction or mate suitability and only appear after puberty.

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      My wife says my sweaty body is attractive to her. I dunno, there may be some truth to this.

      Old stale sweat is a no go of course.

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          I am certainly attracted to the smell of sweaty (clean) women, and even myself since transitioning. Women sweat is like ooof.

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          It would stand to reason that different men emit differently balanced pheromones. Why would they all be the same?

          My personal combination is attractive to her specifically. It’s possible she would find some other men’s sweat attractive as well, but I haven’t asked.

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            differently balanced pheromones

            There is no scientific evidence to support that humans emit any pheromones, let alone a multitude of pheromones. Even if we did, we do not possess the vomeronasal organ that other animals have that allows them to detect them.

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            It looks like the receptor of pheromones is present, but doesn’t work. From [wiki]:

            Among studies that use microanatomical methods, there is no reported evidence that human beings have active sensory neurons like those in working vomeronasal systems of other animals. Furthermore, there is no evidence to date that suggests there are nerve and axon connections between any existing sensory receptor cells that may be in the adult human VNO and the brain. Likewise, there is no evidence for any accessory olfactory bulb in adult human beings, and the key genes involved in VNO function in other mammals have pseudogenized in human beings.

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        It can be different when you know someone. But acquaintances and strangers? Nah that shit gross

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          Yeah, she loves her spouse so much she can’t help but repeatedly bring up details about her spouse which she appreciates in attempt to make the strange creep who’s hitting on her get a fucking clue.

          But i don’t have any compunction to be subtle like her.

          Bro she doesn’t like you. Stop bothering her and figure out literally anything else to do with your day other than hounding a married woman. You’re making her extremely uncomfortable.

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    When my son was in college i told him, “Girls don’t kiss boys who don’t shower.”

    His response- “The girls I like do.”

    Ewwww.

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    Ah yes, nothing gets girls wet like the smell of crusted shit stains and sweaty balls