So now that we’ve established how many of you would suck a dick for your specified price, how many of you would let another man suck your cock? Would you let him do it for free or would you charge for it? Would you let him do it for free but only under certain conditions? Lemmy know what you think! 😉 (FYI not looking for hookups)

  • southsamurai@sh.itjust.works
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    6 days ago

    Hypothetically, or in reality?

    Because I’m sure I could come up with (heh) situations where I’d be willing. But they aren’t realistic.

    Here, in the real world, I’ve gotten offers from dudes that were absolute smoke shows. Of pretty much all types, though I usually got more bears, otters, and twinks overall. I’ve never been sucked off by a guy.

    But I don’t have some kind of moral objection to it. It also doesn’t gross me out or anything, I’ve seen it happen to other guys in person, and it’s just meh. Doesn’t turn me on, doesn’t bother me.

    I’m not sure I could maintain an erection long enough though. For me, part of what works is being fully engaged with a partner. Sight, sound, scent, touch, taste, the whole sensory involvement. And guys don’t arouse me (unfortunately). Again, I’ve had hot guys make serious passes, and there’s no spark in my brain that turns the arousal cycle on.

    Like, get it hard, then the man lays lips on it? Yeah, I could make that happen, I’m sure. But going through the entire session? I don’t think so. Maybe if I kicked back and stayed deep in fantasy, but that never works out with women, so why would it with guys? If I try to fantasize during head with women, it distracts me too much, and I lose interest. Like I said, I work best with full sensory engagement; it’s why I’m not usually super into head on the receiving end. I like it, don’t get me wrong, but it takes the right situation for it to go beyond foreplay and into an event.

    But, maybe I’m wrong, and it would work fine, I dunno but I don’t have the interest to try.

    Money wouldn’t help make it happen, but if it was for money, it would be with the same caveat that the dollar amount would be huge.

    I know, I’m no fun. But it takes more than just genital stimulation to keep my interest. If that’s all I want, I’d rather just masturbate than use someone like a sex toy. That just isn’t my thing

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      6 days ago

      There’s always aphrodisiacs such as Viagra or cock rings etc. to help you maintain an erection. 😉

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        6 days ago

        True, but if I’m doing that, there’s still a matter of motivation.

        Why would I do that? Who are they that I’m willing to take unnecessary medication or partially bind my privates?

        It isn’t impossible, just not feasible