Tespia
  • Communities
  • Create Post
  • heart
    Support Lemmy
  • search
    Search
  • Login
  • Sign Up
stermy4u@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 2 days ago

Women, how do you feel when men or women glance at your boobs?

message-square
message-square
64
link
fedilink
83
message-square

Women, how do you feel when men or women glance at your boobs?

stermy4u@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 2 days ago
message-square
64
link
fedilink
alert-triangle
You must log in or register to comment.
  • YeahIgotskills2@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    edit-2
    27 minutes ago

    The reactions and opinions of people on this subject reinforce my own personal belief that, as individuals, we really have no idea of what’s going on with people beyond our own concepts of sexuality.

    As a hetro man it’s very difficult for me to imagine having common physical assets that the majority of the opposite sex would find so sexually fascinating that they have to repress their desire to flat out gaze at my chest.

  • Malyca@lemmy.zip
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    1 hour ago

    Idc unless it’s leering

  • Lumisal@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    4 hours ago

    Summary of comments:

    Everywhere from “STARE I even make the shirt see through” to “one glance max, a bit annoying if professionally dressed tho”

  • Taleya@aussie.zone
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    57
    ·
    2 days ago

    Honestly doesn’t even register any more. They’re massive, they dominate the landscape. Your eye is drawn by the gravity. It happens

    Hell, my own grandmother confessed to me once after we ran into each other at a shopping centre her first thought was “good lord that woman has large breasts” and then she saw my face and recognised me.

    • AskewLord@piefed.social
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      4
      ·
      edit-2
      7 hours ago

      there are boobs

      then there are forces of nature we are merely subjects of.

  • AllHailTheSheep@sh.itjust.works
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    19
    ·
    2 days ago

    a quick glance? no worries, I’m a lesbian and am certainly guilty of the same. repeated glances or staring is rude and absolutely changes how I treat you in a pretty negative way.

  • Skanky@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    39
    arrow-down
    1
    ·
    2 days ago

    As a man who like boobs of all sizes, I can’t help but glance sometimes. You are all beautiful. Sorry, not sorry.

  • RBWells@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    14
    ·
    2 days ago

    I’m small of bust, but therefore don’t bra often (except at work) so occasionally get a look, I am neither flattered nor offended. I work on my body but boobs are just luck or money, not an accomplishment.

    • Dzheyk@sh.itjust.works
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      2
      arrow-down
      1
      ·
      6 hours ago

      A proud member of the itty bitty titty committee I see

  • Squirrelsdrivemenuts@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    37
    ·
    2 days ago

    Very different depending on how I have dressed. High collar or sweater or professional wear, I think you are aweful. Low-cut shirt, bikini, cute outfit, I’m expecting and tolerating you. I only get happy when it’s my boyfriend staring.

    • hpx9140@fedia.io
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      24
      ·
      2 days ago

      Frankly id just like to know what your beef with squirrels is

      • Squirrelsdrivemenuts@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        3
        ·
        1 day ago

        I just love them too much.

  • triptrapper@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    51
    ·
    2 days ago

    My wife has big boobs. Sometimes she shows them off on purpose, but even when she doesn’t, they’re big and round and nice to look at. She says if people are going to look, at least be inconspicuous about it and not stare.

    That said, I know other women who have felt cursed by their big boobs because everywhere they go, they’re ogled without their consent. Which is also fair. Just because some women are okay with it, doesn’t mean I’m entitled to check everyone out.

  • TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    30
    ·
    2 days ago

    I worked hard enough to get them, I’m glad when anyone looks at them! Most people don’t though because they’re not very big

    • nymnympseudonym@piefed.social
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      30
      ·
      2 days ago

      All boobies are beautiful

      • ChristerMLB@piefed.social
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        18
        ·
        2 days ago

        ABAB?

        • unalivejoy@piefed.social
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          18
          ·
          2 days ago

          ABBA: all boobs be awesome

        • davad@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          5
          ·
          2 days ago

          Assigned Boobs At Birth?

      • MuttMutt@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        3
        ·
        2 days ago

        I can’t help myself…

        https://vimeo.com/4293252

  • Zwuzelmaus@feddit.org
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    40
    arrow-down
    1
    ·
    2 days ago

    Why are you only asking the women? /s

    • CapuccinoCoretto@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      38
      ·
      2 days ago

      I’m a man with moobies. Ask me anything!

      • Goodeye8@piefed.social
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        17
        ·
        2 days ago

        How do you feel when men or women glance at your moobies?

        • CapuccinoCoretto@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          21
          ·
          edit-2
          2 days ago

          I’m a little dissapointed they don’t stare more, lick their lips and wink at me.

          I’m happily married, so nothing would ever come of it, but it would still be nice.

      • X@piefed.world
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        13
        ·
        2 days ago

        What’s your solution for Russell’s paradox?

        • CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          12
          ·
          edit-2
          2 days ago

          Something like “sets that aren’t even hypercomputable aren’t real”. Inventing proper classes, which are like sets but randomly can’t go in other things, is a pretty lame solution, anyway. Although, it can probably emulate the former approach, and it’s easy to describe.

          Source: I have some flab some places.

        • Aniki@feddit.org
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          5
          ·
          2 days ago

          mathematical expressions are evaluated on a computer hardware (the brain), that in “normal” cases eventually converges on a result. but sometimes it starts oscillating instead.

        • CapuccinoCoretto@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          10
          ·
          2 days ago

          To rely on people more competent than me on such matters of importance.

      • queerlilhayseed@piefed.blahaj.zone
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        13
        ·
        2 days ago

        What’s your opinion of jazz?

        • CapuccinoCoretto@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          8
          ·
          2 days ago

          Absolutely love it. From Robert Johnson to Herbie Hancock and everything in between. Let me know if you need any specific recomendations.

          • queerlilhayseed@piefed.blahaj.zone
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            7
            ·
            2 days ago

            Who’s the most basic jazz artist? the one everyone knows and yet everyone kinda looks down on. Who’s the The Red Hot Chili Peppers of jazz?

            • CapuccinoCoretto@lemmy.world
              link
              fedilink
              arrow-up
              7
              ·
              2 days ago

              Kenny G

              • queerlilhayseed@piefed.blahaj.zone
                link
                fedilink
                English
                arrow-up
                5
                ·
                2 days ago

                I have heard of Kenny G, which is a strong indicator of basicness. Gonna give him a spin. I yearn for the peoples’ jazz.

                • CapuccinoCoretto@lemmy.world
                  link
                  fedilink
                  arrow-up
                  7
                  ·
                  2 days ago

                  He is quite talented, though polarizing. I like him as a musician more than I like his music.

                  But he is undoubtedly very talented.

      • kreskin@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        3
        ·
        2 days ago

        what is my purpose?

        • CapuccinoCoretto@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          14
          ·
          2 days ago

          To be excellent to yourself and others and to party on!

      • DagwoodIII@piefed.social
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        5
        ·
        2 days ago

        https://youtu.be/dPlzwoE3RAI?t=57

        Classic Seinfeld

      • zout@fedia.io
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        5
        ·
        2 days ago

        I’m good, thanks.

  • Torn Apart By Dogs@lemmy.blahaj.zone
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    18
    arrow-down
    2
    ·
    edit-2
    2 days ago

    Bold to assume anyone can avoid looking at my tranny rack. What do I do when they don’t look is the better question. Yeah, go look, pervs.

  • 🌈 vanta rainbow black 🌈@lemmy.blahaj.zone
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    6
    arrow-down
    2
    ·
    2 days ago

    i enjoy and encourage it :3

    half the time i’m wearing see-through tops with no bra soooooo yeah lol

    • Dzheyk@sh.itjust.works
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      2
      ·
      6 hours ago

      Living your best life is what you’re doing 😎

  • 𝕱𝖎𝖗𝖊𝖜𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    10
    arrow-down
    1
    ·
    edit-2
    2 days ago

    Men: Ew

    Women: Very context dependent

  • liuther9@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    3
    ·
    2 days ago

    Just look at it. Adore it. It is your life and nobody can dictate you how to live it. don’t touch them though

Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world

asklemmy@lemmy.world

Subscribe from Remote Instance

Create a post
You are not logged in. However you can subscribe from another Fediverse account, for example Lemmy or Mastodon. To do this, paste the following into the search field of your instance: !asklemmy@lemmy.world

A Fediverse community for open-ended, thought provoking questions


Rules: (interactive)


1) Be nice and; have fun

Doxxing, trolling, sealioning, racism, toxicity and dog-whistling are not welcomed in AskLemmy. Remember what your mother said: if you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all. In addition, the site-wide Lemmy.world terms of service also apply here. Please familiarize yourself with them


2) All posts must end with a '?'

This is sort of like Jeopardy. Please phrase all post titles in the form of a proper question ending with ?


3) No spam

Please do not flood the community with nonsense. Actual suspected spammers will be banned on site. No astroturfing.


4) NSFW is okay, within reason

Just remember to tag posts with either a content warning or a [NSFW] tag. Overtly sexual posts are not allowed, please direct them to either !asklemmyafterdark@lemmy.world or !asklemmynsfw@lemmynsfw.com. NSFW comments should be restricted to posts tagged [NSFW].


5) This is not a support community.

It is not a place for ‘how do I?’, type questions. If you have any questions regarding the site itself or would like to report a community, please direct them to Lemmy.world Support or email info@lemmy.world. For other questions check our partnered communities list, or use the search function.


6) No US Politics.

Please don’t post about current US Politics. If you need to do this, try !politicaldiscussion@lemmy.world or !uspolitics@lemmy.world


7) No Hit-and-Run questions.

Please don’t delete your post for no apparent reason. If you plan on deleting a question later, say so in the post, or if you feel that you have a good reason to remove it, message a mod beforehand. It’s not fair to the ones who took their time to answer, and it’s not in the spirit of the community.


Reminder: The terms of service apply here too.

Partnered Communities:

Tech Support

No Stupid Questions

You Should Know

Reddit

Jokes

Ask Ouija


Logo design credit goes to: tubbadu


Visibility: Public
globe

This community can be federated to other instances and be posted/commented in by their users.

  • 1.14K users / day
  • 3.95K users / week
  • 8.87K users / month
  • 19.9K users / 6 months
  • 1 local subscriber
  • 40.3K subscribers
  • 5.06K Posts
  • 228K Comments
  • Modlog
  • mods:
  • Bluetreefrog@lemmy.world
  • asudox (only for mod, alt)@lemmy.world
  • Lemmy Mod Bot@lemmy.world
  • Sean@lemmy.world
  • (trash)can@sh.itjust.works@lemmy.world
  • neidu3@sh.itjust.works
  • asudox@lemmy.asudox.dev
  • candyman337@lemmy.world
  • candyman337@sh.itjust.works
  • BE: 0.19.11
  • Modlog
  • Instances
  • Docs
  • Code
  • join-lemmy.org