I come on here every so often to see what’s going on, and every time I leave disappointed. This is my top 3 grievances at the moment:

  1. This place feels dead. It’s usually quite, but lately it really feels like a ghost town. Idk what the actual stats say, but I feel like the amount of comments, posts, and variety seem to have gone down quite a bit over the past few months.

  2. The amount of genuinely hateful content has gone up. I feel like Lemmy as a whole used to have better moderation even just last year compared to now. Every time I get on here, I’m seeing more and more gross content that’s either racist or bigoted or just downright gross. This content doesn’t get taken down even when reported. As horrid as Reddit’s moderation is, it’s still not this bad.

  3. Outside of the tech communities, there’s no information hygiene anywhere in sight. The news subs publish the most questionable of sources, sometimes outright misinformation… and nobody cares? People don’t criticize weak sources or call out false claims or even value accuracy. I’ve seen multiple instances of users saying something false and getting upvoted for it and a person correcting them getting downvoted for it. Like, what’s even happening?

I don’t know, I feel like when I joined a couple of years ago Lemmy was so much better. It felt more active, the community felt more down to earth, kind, and friendly, and the content was higher in quality. There was much optimism surrounding the Fediverse that’s not there anymore. Now it feels like a more left wing version of Voat than a genuine Reddit alternative. Am I the only one feeling this way or do other people feel the same?

  • AskewLord@piefed.social
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    4 days ago

    Because people are different and enjoy different things.

    I like to ride my bike. Lots of people think I’m an asshole for doing that. I don’t drive around in a giant 3 row SUV, I think people who do that are assholes.

    Who is is positive/negative in this dispute? Nobody, it’s just two opposing viewpoints that are mutually hostile.

    Lots of people will think your an asshole for doing or thinking or talking differently than they do. Personally I find people who are ‘nice and wholesome’ to be really offputting and downright creepy, and largely a facade in my life experience, and if you look beyond the facade a lot of ‘wholesome’ people are anything but.

    • HuudaHarkiten@piefed.social
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      4 days ago

      If I were a moderator and saw someone call you an asshole for riding bikes, I’d ban that person. They can argue that cars are better, bicycling is stupid but if they attack you personally, they are getting a ban.

      Same goes for you, if you call someone an asshole for driving a car, I don’t need that in my space either. You can tell them why you think its not good to drive that car, but just calling them an asshole for driving a car is not good.

      However, if they are being an asshole about it and you call them an asshole. Thats fine.