FOMO stands for Fear Of Missing Out.

I’ve tried playing some JRPGS because they are considered classics and detective games like LA Noire before realizing the genre just wasn’t for me.

I’ve also been stuck in the mentality of if I want to play a game in a series I need to play the prior games. I’m doing this currently for Deus Ex, the Witcher, and Splinter Cell. I guess I’d consider that FOMO to a degree.

Edit: I meant FOMO as in the fear of missing out on something relevant. Not necessarily something that is intentionally being time limited like raids or micro transactions.

  • circuitfarmer@lemmy.sdf.org
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    2
    ·
    1 year ago

    Agree with other commenters: this is healthy.

    For me, I bought Elden Ring day one because the hype was real. It’s a good game – but not really my jam.

    I explored the Yakuza series for a similar reason, and I’ve absolutely loved that. I really want to try Ishin.

    I bought a PS4 Pro for RDR2. I stand by that decision, but I probably wouldn’t go that far again.

  • Mrrdrr@sopuli.xyz
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    1 year ago

    Umm. It sounds more like that you are just trying out new things and genres and finding that it’s not always a hit with you. That’s healthy.

    • Corroded@leminal.spaceOP
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      0
      ·
      1 year ago

      When you put it like that yeah but I was forcing myself through games I wasn’t necessarily enjoying.

      • AZmaybe9@lemm.ee
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        0
        ·
        1 year ago

        There’s an important moment where you have to ask yourself…

        “Is this story so bad I’m not invested in it anymore?”

        “Is the gameplay bothering me so much that it feels bad or unfun to me?”

        If the answer is yes to both of those, you may feel free to drop the game with full confidence you’re not gonna play it again.

        • Corroded@leminal.spaceOP
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          1
          ·
          1 year ago

          I get what you are saying but a lot of the time it’s just a mediocre experience and I’m not necessarily disliking it. More indifferent than anything. Occasionally a game has made a pretty solid turn around in the last act

  • nosebleed@lemmy.dbzer0.com
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    1 year ago

    Minecraft.

    Way back in its beta days, a couple of mates couldn’t put it down. They couldn’t explain why digging holes was fun nor placing cubes. I really didn’t get it after a demonstration from them. Eventually had a LAN with a mate that was vaguely curious but also didn’t think it was going to be interesting.

    We didn’t sleep for the next 36hrs, nor notice it was a new day until my family got up and started making breakfast.

    • Corroded@leminal.spaceOP
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      0
      ·
      1 year ago

      Did you two play much afterwards? I’ve played a few times with friends but I find it usually fizzles out after a couple months then it’s just me who hosts occasionally messing around.

      • nosebleed@lemmy.dbzer0.com
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        1
        ·
        1 year ago

        Fully the same here. Sometimes I get bouts of inspiration to hop on the server or organize to do something with the group we have, but always fizzles out after a few months as you say. Which is fine really, a lot of other good games I tend to circle back to over time just like minecraft.

  • ampersandrew@kbin.social
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    1 year ago

    Overwatch was basically the only way I could socialize with my friends for a while, even though nothing about it really spoke to me. I thought for sure the allure would wear off with my friends quickly, but they stuck with it for a long, long time, until after it became Overwatch 2, though the sentiment had turned on it before that.

    I’ve also been stuck in the mentality of if I want to play a game in a series I need to play the prior games.

    I do this too. I just played through Baldur’s Gate 1 and 2 before starting 3, and I already know there’s at least one recurring character who will show up in this new one; it’s that kind of thing that makes me want to see what came before. However, if I was playing Armored Core 6 right now (which I’m not, but if I find the time, maybe I will), I won’t be compelled to play the earlier games in the series. I tried Armored Core 4 back in the day, and the story is as much as “you’re a mercenary; shoot stuff”. Not a whole lot lost there, and that means that the sequel is more of an upgrade to the software than it is a totally different chapter in a continuing story.

  • sculd@beehaw.org
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    0
    ·
    1 year ago

    Elden Ring

    The glowing review and how people say its the best time to try a souls game made me buy it.

    Not a game for me.

    (Just in case people start saying I need to get good. It has nothing to do with the difficulty. I am thoroughly enjoying AC6 now.)

    • TommySalami@lemm.ee
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      1
      ·
      1 year ago

      No worries! I’m a big fan of FROM and you are absolutely right, they just aren’t for everyone. I honestly wish more people would see that a game can be good but you don’t have to enjoy it. That’s me and a lot of strategy games like Crusader Kings.

    • deksesuma@beehaw.org
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      1
      ·
      1 year ago

      What did you hate about it? That series is great for the people it clicks with and fans are very vocal about it, so I totally understand.

      I went the opposite direction in that it took Bloodborne for the series to click with me. The other games (this was pre DS3) didn’t resonate until after Bloodborne.

        • Cethin@lemmy.zip
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          1
          ·
          edit-2
          1 year ago

          One thing to know about FromSoft games if you ever try again is they really want you to pay attention. They don’t baby you with telling you what to do, but there are hints all around. For the bird on the bridge you can use fire for a ton of damage (molotovs are dropped by enemies in the area). I’m pretty sure item descriptions tell you, but also it tells you in the environment. In the street going towards that bridge there’s a beast tied to a post that’s being burned, for example.

          The games really aren’t that hard (except Sekiro), but they do ask you to participate. You have a lot of options to make them easier though, like using their weaknesses that are normally told to you, or summoning other players, or leveling up, or many other tools.

    • ampersandrew@kbin.social
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      1
      ·
      1 year ago

      For what it’s worth, I’d say Bloodborne is like Dark Souls but with less variety. There are a bunch of play styles you can utilize in Dark Souls and Elden Ring, but Bloodborne really only lets you use one.