I find it’s really easy to accidentally put my M3 into sequential mode and less easy to put it back into automatic. I’m guessing it’s the same case with the X3M. It’s less easy to accidentally put it into M1/M2, but it can still happen.
I would suggest giving your wife a little training session on how to get the car back to normal/safe/comfort settings. It definitely helped me feel more comfortable with having my wife take it out without me, although she is still too scared to actually take it lol.
I find it’s really easy to accidentally put my M3 into sequential mode and less easy to put it back into automatic. I’m guessing it’s the same case with the X3M. It’s less easy to accidentally put it into M1/M2, but it can still happen.
I would suggest giving your wife a little training session on how to get the car back to normal/safe/comfort settings. It definitely helped me feel more comfortable with having my wife take it out without me, although she is still too scared to actually take it lol.