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vestmoria@linux.communityOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•if an elective surgery gets canceled due to sick doctors, is there anyone to blame?English
22·9 months agodeleted by creator
vestmoria@linux.communityOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•those of you with good skills to defuse a tense situation at the workplace, what advice can you give me?English
11·10 months agodeleted by creator
vestmoria@linux.communityOPto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•I'm burnt out, already changed jobs, what else can I do to go back to my normal self?English
1·10 months agodeleted by creator
vestmoria@linux.communityOPto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•I'm burnt out, already changed jobs, what else can I do to go back to my normal self?English
21·10 months agodeleted by creator
vestmoria@linux.communityOPto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•I'm burnt out, already changed jobs, what else can I do to go back to my normal self?English
1·10 months agodeleted by creator

if what I described happens anywhere, why even change jobs?
because I feel this is a trap where I’m supposed to say that I love my job more than anything, because I think this is how managers search for the ones who only want a paycheck and to leave work stuff at the workplace, because I work to live, not live to work, because I only want to do my hours and enjoy my life away from my coworkers, because managers actively search for the ones who drink the kool-aid and believe they will get a promotion if they just try harder, because the ones who ‘enjoy’ their jobs are the ones happy to work for the manager for free, because the ones who ‘like’ their jobs are the ones less likely to establish boundaries (and enjoy being exploited).
Trying harder just means you get a pat on your back and a bigger shovel, not a raise.