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  • But we shouldn’t automatically believe as well. We need to doubt, not believe anyone who claims to be a victim.

    The rate of false claims is much, much lower than actual rape and sexual assault.

    And this is minimum debatable for me, at least.

    There are good evidence and arguments on the opposite.

    Do you understand what the word ‘opposite’ means?













  • It gets better. It does get better. You are worth sticking around to see it get better. I hope you stay, I hope you wake up in the morning, I hope you feel the warmth of a cup of tea and the softness of blankets and the feel of the sun on your face because you deserve every lovely moment of being alive.

    If you’re in the US, call 988. Maybe others can drop some more resources.

    We really like you, Miisha.


  • velma@sh.itjust.workstoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.world•Dating advice
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    6 小时前

    specifically because of how they’re viewed when doing so.

    Viewed by whom? Why are women viewed a certain way when they bend over?

    I need to make this really clear to you - a woman bending at the waist is not communicating that she trusts the people in the room. She is not doing so knowing that you will look at her ass. She is simply existing as a woman.

    Please do not move forward in your life assuming that women are subtly signaling to people that they are welcoming being objectified and sexualized.






  • velma@sh.itjust.workstoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.world•Dating advice
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    7 小时前

    Any woman knows this - many changed over to squatting to pick things up even when alone. So, if she’s okay with a full bend, even if the guy barely even looks, it’s a separate “trust kink” - that she knows he’s there and doesn’t anticipate his mind objectifying her that way.

    What does any woman know? What is a woman communicating if she’s okay with a full bend?

    Please elaborate.