For myself, at 19 I stubbornly believed that my judgement was the best judgement. I felt the same way at 16, too. I had to get to about 25 or 26 to realize that I was mostly a hormonal idiot. Every 10 years I look back and go “huh, that was naive”.

I just hope all of this works out for the OP. As a father of a daughter, it feels scary, but my fear doesn’t help anyone.

Watch out it’s the Block Redneckqois

Might explain why there were so many signs all over.

When your toddler throws a tantrum the best thing to do is to give them a loving pat and ignore them. You can always come back when they’ve moved through their big feelings and are ready to be a part of the family again.