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Cake day: August 1st, 2023

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  • There’s people who get their satisfaction by trying to give advice to others, even if it’s completely wrong or unhinged. They repeat the standard things just to feed their ego, not to actually help the person they’re talking to.

    The best therapy an inexperienced person can give is just talking and listening to the person. You’ll know the difference if the person seems genuinely interested in the person who has the problem.








  • I think your mental place definitely could use a lot of improvement since this is a topic that’s clearly bothering you. Still, this is very normal and you’re not alone on that sadly. Just remember, upvotes/downvotes are not a decider of truth. You can be absolutely right and be downvoted to oblivion. It just determines how much you match the group think of that community. The approval of faceless nerds is irrelevant, espsecially on reddit-style forums like Lemmy where your votes are literally meaningless. It’s more of an actual issue on something like twitter/tik tok/youtube/etc where your interactions are part of your personal brand.