Matching personalities make the fire burn but first you need a spark. If a woman catches my eye and then it turns out she likes to be rude to the waitress, yeah it a boner killer. And if at first I don’t notice her but she tells some killer joke and spins a great story then I might still develop a crush. But still if she’s “my type” it definitely help get the fire started.
Sorry I guess the joke didn’t land.