Obligatory also a man, but I personally love toys. Don’t snooze on the womanizer. I got the cheap$40 one for my wife. The second I touched it to her, her response was, “oh shit.” I’ve even used it on the underside of my head and when the section works, it’s pretty great. They even make styles that suck on the g spot as well, and can be used clitorally, which sounds pretty amazing on paper.
Just my 2 cents. I also agree with the other poster that you might find kinks to try out. If nothing else, think about what really turns you on and try to pursue that. If you have a partner, include them by sharing what you’d like to try!
Obligatory also a man, but I personally love toys. Don’t snooze on the womanizer. I got the cheap$40 one for my wife. The second I touched it to her, her response was, “oh shit.” I’ve even used it on the underside of my head and when the section works, it’s pretty great. They even make styles that suck on the g spot as well, and can be used clitorally, which sounds pretty amazing on paper.
Just my 2 cents. I also agree with the other poster that you might find kinks to try out. If nothing else, think about what really turns you on and try to pursue that. If you have a partner, include them by sharing what you’d like to try!