Just came out to my cousin! Only extended family member to know. I told my sister a month after I knew, I knew she’d be supportive. Talked about it with my dad, he doesn’t really get it but loves me and is happy for me. He’s relatively old, and struggles with other people’s name and pronoun changes, so I doubt he’ll do well with mine if/when that happens, but that doesn’t matter to me much. Haven’t told my mother yet.
Just… Ugh.