I was always so concerned about “not looking weird/suspicious” around young girls. You’d think that would have helped me figure it out, but in hindsight it was purely a way to avoid confronting my own attractions. Glad you were able to overcome it as well :)
I also had the idea that as I aged the people in my fantasies were “supposed” to age up as well. I remember specifically thinking “it’s not pedophilic if I’m close in age”. I used that line of reasoning to stay in denial about my minor attraction when I was young. The fact that I’m also attracted to adults only made it harder for me to recognize that I really am attracted to minors.
I thought I was straight, went through the denial stage with being gay as well as with being a map. It was a very similar process for both of them, but it still took me years after accepting I like men to accept that I like kids too.
I did not see that reply… 🤦 that does answer a lot of my questions. I wholeheartedly agree that using it to describe real people or canonically trans characters is bad.
I have seen some people online get rather specific about their definition of “futa”. Some say that it has to be a character with both a penis and a vagina, but many people will use it to refer to characters that don’t have a vagina. It gets even more complicated when you start considering things like gender. I guess at the heart of this is a level of ambiguity that is often present in fictional works. I often will not know anything about the characters involved in a hentai image, and sometimes there isn’t any real “canonical” info to know in the first place. With Japanese content in particular there is a cultural and linguistic element that can make it even harder.
It’s tricky, because I want to use language that allows all lgbt people to be comfortable, but at the same time there is a reason why a lot of online porn/fetish communities have coalesced around certain Japanese words (Japan makes good porn 😂). I would be perfectly happy getting rid of “futa” as a term, but there are decades worth of online content that are tagged with futa. I personally enjoy content that is described under a wide selection of terms, with varying degrees of overlap.
I think some variation of “fem-penis” might be the best bet for inclusive language that is also useful for pornography. It allows for some wiggle room in the gender identity of the character and is less cumbersome to read and understand than “FPWP” imho.
So I guess I don’t have a specific question any more, but I would love to hear your thoughts on dealing with gender ambiguity in fictional porn relating to this.
I don’t have much to contribute to the cross-posting discussion, but I would like to know more about your issues with with “futa”. I 100% understand why the other examples you gave would be hurtful, but I don’t think I’ve ever heard any discussion on that with regards to futa. I’m not sure I understand what you mean by “equivocating real people with hentai”. Curious to hear your perspective!
This thread is what convinced me to look a bit deeper here and stay around. Burggit is not the cesspit you might expect if you heard about it elsewhere.
Also, welcome!!
Probably won’t be highly active but happy to interact with anyone on there! Also don’t mind DMing with anyone on Matrix. @phossu:matrix.org
Pan was likely one of the first lolis I felt attracted to 🤤 she’s a cutie
This particular video isn’t mine, but I do tribs occasionally and would be open to requests! I plan to post some of my stuff here on this community at some point soon
Fantastic image choice. Love the different expressions
Welcome!! Glad to have you here! The UI is a little unusual compared to some sites but you’ll get it. Some of us use shota.nu to host video content to post here, which is ran by the Burggit admin. But you can do it quite a few different ways. Feel free to ask questions if you need info, Burggitors are nice
Nice video 🤤 You could also include more pics/video on your posts here if you like! Great to have more contributors sharing tributes regardless!!
Vegeta! What does the scouter say about their user activity?
I love this image. Top tier clothing choice, extremely erotic without being too revealing!
I used keybase briefly a couple years ago. Got bad vibes from some of the people I met and didn’t stick around. Had the same experience with some Matrix chats I’ve come across.
I love finding Loli communities but I prefer to keep barriers between myself and any cp or irl content, as I am not interested in viewing or sharing such content. I felt like I was just one wrong click away from seeing something dangerous on some of those places. Much prefer Burggit’s style.
That said, if you know of a chill community I wouldn’t mind checking them out!
w-what do those do 
Jealous. I grew up with a lot of shame and it’s taken me many years to strip it away.