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Cake day: June 29th, 2026

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  • Me: My HRT provider is a bunch of fucking vampires, I hate them, they’re so expensive. I should be able to just ask my GP for hormones and then pick them up from the pharmacy the next day. Fuck them.

    (I’m sorry what happened when you tried to go get hormones? )

    Also me: I love my HRT provider. They’re so compassionate and understanding. I didn’t even get gatekept when I told them I was autistic. Glory be to the vampires, take all my blood, I wasn’t using it for anything important!




  • I’ve left a lot of friends behind over the years because I rarely put in the effort to maintain a friendship when my effort obviously isn’t being reciprocated, but shout out my best friend from when I was 15 to when I was 25 for ghosting me because he was beefing with someone else entirely and he wanted a clean break from that person.

    For about three days before he came back acting like nothing was fucking wrong.

    I don’t think about him much anymore, which I suppose is healing. But if his name comes up, I will drop some salt







  • Do you read webnovels or lightnovels. If yes to the latter I’ve really enjoyed “she professed herself pupil of the wise man” in spite of some… shall we say “choices”. That author’s egg is cracking any day now.

    If yes to the former, see you on scribblehub, we got all sorts of gender bender and trans stuff there. We got the works of Fern V Bedek, we got whatever Cape and capability is and we’ve also got (ahem) me!




  • I watched almost 10 minutes of a youtuber shilling it and my takeaway is “linux for Elon Musk”. The marketing was leaning heavily into “powered by the bedrock of archlinux. Use this and you can have honorary arch cred”. And like, no! As an arch user, I started on ubuntu. It took me years to gain the competencies to be an arch power user. And throughout my learning journey I had the loving embrace of an operating system that didn’t expect me to learn fucking keyboard shortcuts. It ships with a keyboard first tiling window manager, and those are HARSHLY unforgiving. I tried i3 after I’d already moved into my gentoo phase, and I still found it tough and ultimately did not stick with it, realising if I want a keyboard first workflow I can create shortcuts for my stacking window manager and still have the mouse to fall back on. That and its intentional 80s hacker aesthetic just REEKS of I use arch btw elitism. Trash distro. I don’t want ubuntu to stay the face of linux, but I’d rather the title go to an old guard like Fedora, not this poser.

    This wants to be the distro you use if you want people to think you’re vewy smart.

    Finding out its vibe coded and the creator is an Elon wannabe just reinforces my initial impressions





    • Kris from Deltarune and Frisk from Undertale are both non-binary, though they never tell us their agabs (fair)
    • Kirby, while using he/him pronouns in the english speaking world has always been genderless and even hangs out with the girls in a nintendo promotional panel where a bunch of nintendo’s female characters bake together. He is also seen in the equivilent nintendo boys content
    • Birdo from doki doki panic and the Mario franchise is ftm
    • Vivian from Paper Mario the 1000 year door is ftm
    • The player character in hollowknight is some sort of eldrich thing pretending to be a child, so falls into the genderless monster trope
    • Cyberpunk famously allows you to create a custom character who is male, female or some combination of the two
    • Saint’s Row 2 has a gender slider where all the way to the left makes your boobs bigger and all the way to the right makes your dick bigger. I can only assume right in the middle to mean non binary.
    • Every saints row game between SR2 and SR2022 has plastic surgery clinics where you can change your gender pretty much at will as long as you have the money. SR2022 replaces with a pause menu item which is better for convenience but less fun from a worldbuilding standpoint.