You need a loaner. And you need to start documenting every visit. I believe the lemon law states they must fix it on the third attempt for the same issue. Check your state laws regarding lemon law. Hondas have great reliability that’s the reason I shop there. If my 23 Pilot was acting a fool I’d be pushing HARD to get it lemoned and get another one.

Document everything.

Find a young priest and and an old priest.