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Cake day: July 2nd, 2023

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  • A few days ago I picked up my 80 year old dad and got him to the grocery store, and he forgot to close his front door.

    When we got back he was panicked that cats had gotten outside. (He has four.)

    We searched for about ten minutes and saw one inside, but couldn’t find the others.

    Thankfully they had all stayed inside.

    Gotta be careful with your outdoor kitties, folks. There are risks and costs in allowing them to live fuller lives.

    So so glad that Larry made it home!




  • My mother was a drug counselor who refused to ever even attempt to quit cigarettes.

    She died at 62. I spent three years of my life caring for her at her end as she begged for cigarettes.

    Her death broke my Dad, and I still care for him as he lives life as a hermit, fifteen years later.

    I don’t have children of my own, or maybe one unofficially adopted one.

    I am willing to make a number of sacrifices for the ones I love. This resolve has been tested but not yet broken.

    But I am a stoner and a drinker, so have not escaped the same traps exactly.

    I am more mindful of the choices I make, or at least that is what I tell myself. I keep a close community of those that I love and trust.

    Stay away from tobacco. And probably alcohol as well. (And the hard drugs, coke/meth/opiates, of course.)

    I have been obese my entire adult life. This year I have lost 30 lbs so far. But my despair has grown as I am also unemployed, so that weight loss has stalled. I can get back to it and will. This post was a good wakeup call.


  • This is also aggravated by the amount of posters who predominantly post from the same obscure source with no explanation.

    I am not gonna vet your preferred news source. I will assume they are fringe and biased unless you make a case for them.

    (This is also aggravated by RSS repost bots that cannot vet their content or its validity or appropriateness for the community in question. I tend to just block those firehoses.)