These two vehicle are like comparing a corolla to a C-Class.

But you can fill up at home where the ICE vehicles cannot.

I am sorry to hear this. The main problem was you picked a vehicle that is well below average for road trips. If you went with a model 3 instead your range could have been 50 miles greater, Charging would be over 50% faster and the number of places to stop would have doubles or more. If an Ioniq 6 you would have had the long range and even faster charging but less chargers to choose from for now.

Kind of like renting a van when you needed a 3/4 truck. Wrong vehicle for the job.