I see, that makes a lot of sense. Honestly though the idea of being more comfortable around us because we can’t “force ourselves on them” is really dumb. Like ignoring the fact that there’s more ways to force oneself onto someone else, most of us who are non-op can’t even penetrate if we wanted to, I can still get hard enough to do it but the last time I tried, it hurt really bad and became very irritated and swollen afterwards, but others I’ve known and dated can’t even get hard anymore at all, for them it’s physically impossible to penetrate someone else, surgery or not. I feel like many people out there just don’t understand this aspect and the fact that penis atrophy is a real thing, and even if you use it regularly the changes still very often make that type of activity impossible or extremely unpleasant.

Also yeah I was assigned male at birth. I don’t look it bc I’m lucky to have been able to get blockers and HRT when I was young :)

Preventing people from saying “lesbian” sounds homophobic to me.

Let’s also not ignore the fact that these communities literally prohibit Links or content from being posted to them. So even if people make the Federation argument about cross-hosting it’s all moot in the end because the community doesn’t allow it in the first place.

Here is a link to the rules of the Piracy community you will notice if you have any form of reading comprehension (or if you actually read it and aren’t just trolling, like many people here) that rule 3 specifically prohibits linking to or hosting files, which many people making the federated hosting argument seem to leave out of the equation, likely because it destroys their argument altogether since their argument is about illegal content being hosted, but no illegal content is hosted in the first place (and any that is usually is removed by the mods for breaking the rules, just like it is here on Lemmy.world).