OP, please listen to this. IT closet, conduits.
all relatively good and common advise but the cable up sizing to 10/3 is absolute bizarre and a waste of money.
Home alarm system: 2-wire all door and window reed sensors to the IT closet. Use Konnected or something like that.
may as well just pay the $20-30 a month for a monitored system
but 4 cables to a door – 2 for a contact sensor, 2 for a shock sensor. assuming OP buys a proper door that can’t be kicked in. may as well have a notification.
4-6 for windows. 2 for a shock sensor if the glass is laminated – glass break sensors don’t work well, 2 for the contact sensor, 2 for shades.
dimmers generally dont click if you can switch to dimmers.