• Cosmic Cleric@lemmy.worldEnglish
    723·
    9 months ago

    there was no need for her to stress out OP by telling him he had to hurry.

    Honestly I wouldn’t myself have done that to someone else, but depending on how the request was asked would depend if it was actually rude or not.

      • Cosmic Cleric@lemmy.worldEnglish
        912·
        9 months ago

        it’s a quote so that’s probably exactly how it was asked

        That’s an assumption, we don’t know that.

        Usually when someone’s telling a story they want to put themselves in the best of light, especially if they are criticizing someone else in the story.

      • bitwaba@lemmy.worldEnglish
        510·
        9 months ago

        Just because it’s in quotes doesn’t mean that’s how it happened.

        Here’s an example:

        “it’s a quote so that’s probably exactly how bitchy she was”.

    • maness300@lemmy.worldEnglish
      47·
      9 months ago

      Literally asking any stranger to finish their food sooner so you can take their seat is unacceptable.

      It just reeks of entitlement where you’re more important than them. They shouldn’t have to eat any differently because you want to have their seat.

      I can tell this was asked by a woman whose dad gave her everything she wanted.