• Drusas@kbin.social
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    10 months ago

    That’s incel talk. Most women don’t want to be approached at the gym.

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      10 months ago

      I’m actually an antinatalist. 🤣

      No incel here. No girl problems.

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        10 months ago

        Being antinatalist has nothing to do with being an incel. Are you conflating antinatalism with asexuality?

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          10 months ago

          No. It’s just impossible for me to be one of those guys who are mad about not having sex when I’m a guy who refuses to have sex. Simple logic yo.

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              No, it’s a reason for being celibate.

              That’s like hearing someone talk about how they’re Muslim and telling them “that’s called fasting” as of that’s the only thing about it.

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                No, I’m not commenting on your reasoning. How you are living is called celibacy. Like monks and priests are (supposed to be) celibate. We don’t have to talk about their reasons for that to be the case.

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          10 months ago

          I should have used the word “attractive” really. Regardless, what I think about them isn’t at all related to my own stunted desires or whatever. I’m actually really sick of having to explain to girls how my rejection isn’t an insult and the conversation usually leading to me talking about how shit I think life is.

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          10 months ago

          Hey, you can copy yourself and make your copies live in this miserable world all you want. Maybe they’ll even like it if they’re like you. My copies would be miserable and thank me for not making them have to exist.

          I don’t owe anyone my genes.

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            10 months ago

            You can be an antinatalist (I am) and still have sex and enjoy it, if you have the chance.

            You know, vasectomy and salpingectomy exist.

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              10 months ago

              I don’t gamble with my ethics. That would mean I don’t really have them. I’ve had sex before. Very pretty girl. It was meh.