• Honytawk@lemmy.zip
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    1 year ago

    Because phonecalls are reserved for when you immediately with no delay need someone.

    Asking about a show is not one of those cases.

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      1 year ago

      Or just want to talk to someone? Why are we simultaneously normalizing anti-social behavior and wondering why the young people are so unhappy?

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        1 year ago

        Unless you know for sure that the other person is legitimately bored, sitting around not doing anything, imposing yourself on someone like this is rude.

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        1 year ago

        Maybe this is just me and my circle but if someone just wants to talk I’d typically expect that more over discord or something like that rather than phone call unless they’re older.

        Other than that phone call is for urgent stuff or something that’s going to have a lot of back and forth and is quicker pver phone.

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        1 year ago

        Why not text ‘wanna talk sometime’? A call demands an immediate response, so reserve it for things that demand immediate responses.

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          No it doesn’t. Just don’t pick up the phone. If it’s important they’ll text you to pick up the phone. There’s a reason the terms “phone tag” and “screening calls” exist.

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            1 year ago

            I’m sorry, what’s “phone tag” and “screening calls”? Never heard of any of that.

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            1 year ago

            But you don’t know the relative importance of what they’re telling vs what you’re doing. A text gives more information than just seeing your receiving a call.

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              Damn dude, it’s not that big a deal. Just don’t pick up the phone. If it’s important they’ll find a way to let you know.

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                1 year ago

                You will feel terrible if you don’t pick up the phone and it turns out to be something important, like being able to hear the last words of your grandma or something.

                Texting is a lot less of a big deal than a phone call is.