• ReCursing@kbin.social
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    9 months ago

    I do not get the sexualisation of daddy. It just feels pedo and cringy to me. if I was having sex with someone and they called me daddy I’d probably immediately go soft

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      9 months ago

      I get soft even if it just pops up in a title when looking at porn. It’s just deeply off-putting.

    • 🐑🇸 🇭 🇪 🇪 🇵 🇱 🇪🐑@lemmy.world
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      9 months ago

      Just you wait until you meet people with mommy issues. THOSE you wanna avoid

      Mostly because I’m my experience people with mommy issues tend to be male NEETs who are incapable of seeing any woman as just a friend. Usually incels too. I found them to be kind of abusive as people too and turn vindictive when you don’t feed into their fantasies. As a woman, it’s always the same old story when I encounter these men.

      Meanwhile people with daddy issues usually have their shit together regardless of gender.

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      9 months ago

      My partner calls me daddy and she’s older yhan me, so… what does that make me???

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      I do not get the sexualisation of daddy. It just feels pedo and cringy to me

      I mean… it’s pretty common for people to call romantic partners “baby”, I don’t see how that’s different

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      9 months ago

      I’ve been in this exact situation. Went soft immediately and we had to have a talk about it.