but how can you take a person who has raised you and showered you with love and stick him in a glorified hospital?

Because they didnt.

I have no interest in so much as talking to my parents. They did the bare minimum to get me to 18 and that was it. Everything else was for them. So fuck you if I don’t want to give them the same goddamn treatment so I can break the cycle and focus on my own damn family.