first of all, I said “girlfriend” because I just think it’s a cute term of love u But anyway, in where I live, there aren’t too many nonbinary people (only me). And honestly it sucks because I think nonbinary people are cute :3 Maybe if I see someone who looks “nonbinary” I can ask them.
For an interesting time, read this person’s post/comment history. It’s like having a stone in your shoe but it somehow came to life and started posting on the Internet.
I’m very sorry about that…
I suppose the best way for queer dating is joining queer (friendly) spaces. And get to know people. Also you could go on fedi (mastodon, misskey) etc and get to know people. And maybe at some point you’ll grow close enough for irl dating with someone. 😊
Always be watchful for scammers, chasers etc.