Moving on from what?
If you don’t know, then this question isn’t for you.
So it’s spam?
Something not being for you doesn’t mean it’s not for anyone.
This community isn’t “ask a fraction of lemmy,” it’s “ask lemmy.”
So it is, so the question remains, What’s stopping you from moving on?
Personally it’s starting all over but everyones situation is a little different.
So if op asked about a niche topic you had no idea about would it be spam as well, just because you had nothing to say?
From my question. What’s stopping you?
Yea, that is my thought too.
Trauma, really. Therapy helps, and time has as well, but yeah
Also, Psychedelics, for me.
poverty,trauma
Replanning my whole future all over again without that person.
I’m sorry friend. It’s very, very hard. And rewarding. But hard.
Divorce in my country means I will basically never see my son again.
Pain. Moving hurts. Not moving hurts. It hurts.
$1800 lease breaking fee. It’s up in March and even that feels like it’s going to break my sanity. I’ll get there though.
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I appreciate the input, but I think I’m just going to ride it out. It’s greystar, which bought the building after I moved in but I am the idiot that renewed the lease after without finding out more about them. Big national company colluding with other big national companies and documentation of them telling their managers not to ever negotiate.
Corporations are the devil and they are buying up all the whole housing industry and we are all becoming victimized by it.
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I can’t afford therapy. Severe childhood abuse and resulting depression isn’t something you can just get over with inspirational quotes.
There’s a Cheeto chimp that’s hanging on to the edge of the sewer pipe that just won’t flush away.
I simply don’t won’t to carry on without them. There is more to it but that’s most of it. All I have are boxes of aches now.
Shame, ability, and demotivation, depending on what you’re asking about.
Are you spying on me?
How’d you know I’ve spent the last month completely stuck in a literal US State that I don’t live in, but got kinda comfortably complacent here because it’s so peaceful and the price of fuel is fantastic compared to the state I need to go to where the jobs there pay much better because the cost of living is so much higher which also means there’s more stress & traffic & crime,
so it makes me want to stay here where I am with no stress, no crime, no traffic, but the pay here would be lower but I’ve got to make a decision soon before my bank account runs dry, I need to get a job somewhere soon,
So every day all day long my mind keeps ping-ponging back & forth between these two options, so the result is I’ve been sitting here doing nothing because each decision would affect the rest of my life in drastically different ways, and choosing one of the other is agonizing and I just can’t.
Executive functions on overload and shut off.
For a whole month.
HOW DID YOU KNOW?
This was a very neat experiment indeed! Even though I started it about mid-way on my grief period.
Every time I thought about the lady that left me, I clicked my clicker (the red line).We were together for 1-2 months. I recall it took 2-3 months to get over it.
I’m waiting for mainstream jetpacks. It’ll be cooler that way.
Fear and culturally defined gender roles
