Perhaps you’ve noticed. We have reached a tipping point in the country over tipping.

To tip or not to tip has led to Shakespearean soliloquies by customers explaining why they refuse to tip for certain things.

During the height of the COVID-19 pandemic, customers were grateful for those who seemingly risked their safety so we could get groceries, order dinner or anything that made our lives feel normal. A nice tip was the least we could do to show gratitude.

But now that we are out about and back to normal, the custom of tipping for just about everything has somehow remained; and customers are upset.

A new study from Pew Research shows most American adults say tipping is expected in more places than it was five years ago, and there’s no real consensus about how tipping should work.

  • nutsack@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    it’s not your waiter’s fault that they’re stuck in a scam on the scale of a whole culture

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        It is of you decide they can starve over it.

        When sustainable wage ain’t the minimum wage tipping ain’t a reward for good service, it’s the wage earner’s solidarity tax.

          • Ð Greıt Þu̇mpkin@lemm.ee
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            1 year ago

            It can be multiple people’s fault at once. You’re still the one stiffing them until the law makes their employers pay them fairly, don’t like it, don’t use the services.

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              Tipping is depending on the kindness of strangers. Don’t like it, don’t get a job that requires tips to survive.

              • Ð Greıt Þu̇mpkin@lemm.ee
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                If you don’t want to tip then don’t ask for the service of tipped workers and get pissy that they ask for a crumb of solidarity while the fight for a living wage remains ongoing.

                Don’t like tipping, go grocery shopping for your food and cook for your own selfish ass self.

                • samus12345@lemmy.world
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                  Goes both ways. Don’t like it if a person decides not to tip, which is well within their rights? Get a different job rather than continuing to support an industry that’s exploiting your labor even more than most do.

                  • Ð Greıt Þu̇mpkin@lemm.ee
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                    1 year ago

                    Nah, you’re the cheepo who doesn’t wanna pay the real price for the service they’re getting.

                    People like you are why “but it’ll raise prices!” is viewed as a main argument against living wages.

                    Fuckin’ cheapskate you are, when you catch something when the barista you short changed spits in your drink, remember how bravely and nobly you carried the cross of “fuck you gimme a free burger.”

        • Cosmic Cleric@lemmy.world
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          1 year ago

          It is of you decide they can starve over it.

          Wanting them to work somewhere with they are paid fairly does not equate to that you have no problem with them starving.

              • Ð Greıt Þu̇mpkin@lemm.ee
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                Deserve ain’t the metric when they’re being paid below a living wage.

                You’re arguing they should provide five star service and suck your dick to “deserve” not needing to choose between heating and electricity that month.

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                  Deserve ain’t the metric when they’re being paid below a living wage.

                  The two are not connected though either.

                  You’re arguing they should provide five star service and suck your dick to “deserve” not needing to choose between heating and electricity that month.

                  No, I’m not. Please don’t put words in my mouth, especially emotionally hyperbolic ones.

                  • Ð Greıt Þu̇mpkin@lemm.ee
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                    Nah, when you’re saying you don’t have to tip in these times that’s exactly what you’re saying fuckin’ moocher.

            • SRo@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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              1 year ago

              Cool cool cool - so we have the solution. After everyone who got bamboozled to work a job without compensation starved the tip crisis is over. Problem solved; just wait it out.

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        In some states, like mine, someone working for tips is not getting paid minimum wage. So if you don’t tip the waiter, then they could be worse off than a cashier at 7-11 who makes minimum wage.