• SirDankbud@lemmy.ca
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    5 days ago

    They make large condoms. I’m blessed enough that I have to use large and even with that it was constricting enough that I usually couldn’t cum with one on. I still ALWAYS wore a condom until I got engaged to my wife. I understand that the benefits outweigh the risks.

    • Suite404@lemmy.world
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      5 days ago

      Random story that is mostly not related here but I wanna tell it so I’m going to.

      I almost can’t get off when having sex. Like, it’s a chore and it fucking sucks to try. Even without a condom it’s just not happening.

      I hook up with this lady, she says guys finish really fast with her and I’m like, well, that’s not going to happen here.

      With a condom on I turn into a 4 pump chump. This lady was not super hot or anything. But damn.

      Outside of a few years after starting to have sex, I’ve never had thst experience before or since. I always wonder what made the difference.

    • some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org
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      5 days ago

      For me, it wasn’t the constriction, it was that lowered sensitivity. There are thin ones and there are magnums. I need the mags, which I haven’t seen with a thin option (though I haven’t bought condoms in years and maybe that’d be an option now). I’m glad to be beyond that mess.