theres this notion that cancel culture is this vicious mob that will KILL YOU over anything you said at age 14 but now im starting to realize that nobody really cares about what you did at those ages, its the shit that you did in your 20s and later adult years that people care about. i think that the grace period is over and its time to reevaluate what ive done up until now and really step up on my morals and conduct. is this the frontal lobe developing ?