Got some color-changing light bulbs for the bedroom so we can turn on the dark red and pretend we’re at a swinger club.

Naughty: browsing this instance. The wife had surgery last week and so much stress, this week was recovery for everybody…

Un-naughty: not covid thankfully but recovering from respiratory illness, now one of the kids has a fever. Woohoo. But I got to chill at a friend’s weed farm, so that was nice.

Well fuck this was another interesting week. So much to share. tl;dr on my new first-time experiences:

• Fucking a more fem guy
• Being invited to a girl’s place for a party she’s hosting instead of a date (read below omg)
• Guy cumming in my mouth after 30 seconds of bj
• Can’t stay hard when trying to fuck a guy
• Cumming from pure oral, no hands
• Visit to a glory hole

Full stories below:

• Thursday back in NYC. My hot male Tinder match had to reschedule our hookup, so I found a very muscular vers guy on Grindr looking to bottom for me. So smooth and muscley. Turns out he is more fem, and super hot. I was planning to take this one slow, but when we really get into it, he lets me fuck him missionary. I haven’t been able to do that for a while, with partners preferring to control the ride by being on top. I went hard. It was intense, it was primal. His facial expressions and vocalization drove me to fuck him even harder. It was only a few minutes of this ferocity before I unloaded everything I had in him. Got his dick leaking a mess from how hard I could hit his prostate. Cuddled for a while, but when I was hard for round 2 he kicked me out because he had to wake up at 5:30am. Funny story, it took forever to find one of my socks, it was hiding in my pant leg, he was giving me one of his pairs to go home before we found it. It was hilarious!
• Friday I didn’t get him to orgasm, so I still wanted to make someone reach climax. Guy says it’s his birthday and wants head. Sure! Kind of lied about his body type. He was way heavier than “normal” but whatever. Says he might facefuck me hanging off the side of the bed, and i’d like that. We start to heat up, and within 30 seconds of a regular blowjob, he cums in my mouth. I was expecting a bit longer.
• Friday bonus since he came (and left) early, I actually got a reply from one of the girls from last week!!! She invited me last-minute to a party at her place. We’re both Indian, and it’s a Diwali party with a bunch of her friends. Great group! We eat, drink, dance, sing. She is super flirty with me I think. Light touches, eye contact, slightly suggestive dialog. Her friends are really encouraging and supportive of us, too. She’s out of town and I’m out of town for the next two weeks, but I’m trying to stay in touch over text until we find a time to meet. She’s really hot, especially in those tight revealing Indian clothes she wore, and also mysterious I am so into her.
• Saturday friends hosted a halloween party which was fun. As I was leaving I decided to walk 50 minutes home since the weather is nice and everyone was out in costume and enjoying themselves. A guy messages me on Grindr offering a bj, and he’s on my route home, so sure! I send pics and he assures me he can handle my size and curve. I get to his apartment building, and ask which apt # and he blocks me!! omg!
• Sunday A lanky twink (5’11", 115 pounds) and I plan to meet today to fuck. We want to try some more athletic things like impaling him while holding him or holding him up against the wall. He’s light enough that we can do it. Have a coffee together, and I’m not feeling much but I don’t overthink it. Make out and he’s an okay kisser, but nothing is happening down there for me. He gets me hard with a few touches, we get a condom on, and after he sits on my cock and we fuck for a few seconds I go soft, and I don’t really get hard again. I’ve never had this happen before. I guess I really didn’t feel anything for him. In hindsight I should have seen the signs earlier and peaced out and saved us both two hours. He really really tried to make it work, too. I feel bad for him, he must be taking it personally. He, by the way, stayed totally rock hard the whole time. Is this what people refer to as “chemistry” or lack thereof??
• Sunday bonus horny and my backup bottom also had to reschedule. I finally go to visit a guy that runs a local glory hole. GOD DAMN THAT WAS THE BEST BLOWJOB OF MY LIFE 10/10, 12/10 with rice. This guy is a real pro. I have no idea what he was doing with his mouth to create those sensations. He did not use his hands at all. I got distracted a few times and went soft and he powered through it and got me going again. I really thought he might give up or use his hands but he didn’t and it was amazing. The climax was deep and he got that load after a lot of hard work. I’ve never cum from a blowjob without either using hands or facefucking. I think I need to work on getting better at receiving pleasure (BJ) and not just taking pleasure (facefucking, fucking). Taking pleasure is easier because you have to focus on what you’re doing. With a BJ the mind can wander. He liked sucking me, so he said I can practice receiving pleasure with him, and next time he’d want the curtain down so I can see how he works his magic.
• Sunday double bonus the other girl from the fancy party with my sister also got back to me about yes wanting to go on a date and we’re going to figure it out!

I played The Finals and my male character had the whole bakery and I didn’t know how to feel about it.

Had sneaky quiet anniversary sex with the wife as to not wake up the light sleeping MIL and 2 kids. It was a nice, wholesome experience!

Girlfriend and I went to a Halloween party, same crew as a couple weeks ago, so it was pretty crazy! We got into her toy box for some fetish costume ideas (collar and a leash for me, but she went all out with a dominatrix vibe that was crazy hot!) We were definitely still some of the mildest there, I’m pretty sure I saw multiple people wearing nothing but body paint!

Afterwards, we got to play with them alone and I’m a fan! She has a set of restraints that go under her bed, got me tied up and blindfolded and would pick a random part of my body to kiss, lick, caress with a feather, run an ice cube over, or zap with this electro-sting wand she has. I can’t put into words how into this I was, my main experience with BDSM before (outside of stuff I’d see in porn) was mostly roleplay and some light spanking. This was a whole new level, and I’m definitely hooked!

I had the worst cold this week 😔 so basically, I have worked (from home) and slept. I even skipped my friends Halloween party yesterday and I was so excited for it! Here’s to hoping next week is better 😊