The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/Royal_Cod17 on 2025-03-02 18:26:39.

I am 23 years old and live with my mother and my 33 year old brother. I do my own laundry while my mom does hers and my brother’s.

My mom has been in the hospital for the past week due to recent medical issues, so she hasn’t been home to do my older brother’s laundry.

While visiting her at the hospital earlier today, she gave me a list of very specific instructions to follow for doing my brother’s laundry. I was a little caught off guard, because why would she be giving me that information instead of my brother?

It seems to me that she expects me to do my brother’s laundry for him now that she isn’t able to, instead of my brother just doing it himself.

Am I the asshole if I don’t do his laundry? He is an adult man…why is his younger sister expected to do it for him?