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    19 天前

    Meanwhile, kid me had a huge crush on our regular babysitter, and I used to go out of my way to be as nice to her as I could.

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        19 天前

        Obviously not.

        Pre-pubescent kids announce they love someone all the time, no adult or near-adult takes it seriously, nor should they.

        And I was not the type of kid to say it aloud in the first place.

        I was over it before I realized that the last time she’d visit had passed.

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          Probably because kids haven’t figured out relationship nuance yet, and thus can equate all non-familial love with romantic one.

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            And they’re kids. Kids don’t typically comprehend the significance of romantic attraction between people, or concepts like marriage, until at least their teens. And even then are likely working off a very basic understanding of what a commited relationship involves.

            Marriage to a nine-year-old might just mean being together forever. But being together forver is a much simpler thing in the mind of a nine-year-old, than in the mind of an adult.