The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/NoChallenge3078 on 2025-01-07 11:15:49.

A little back story, I 37F am separated and filing for divorce from my 38M ex husband. We have a 4 year old and when we separated 3 years ago I agreed to move closer to his family so he could have a relationship with them.

I agreed, I moved found a job. Got a new apartment my exs mother stays and helps while I work. I pay for all rent, utilities, and groceries.

This includes the fact that I allowed my ex to stay here while he was looking for a job. So I paired for everything including a nanny, nursery school fees and all medical for my son. I was solely the one financially providing for my son and two ot

Recently I lost my job and money has been tight. I have been doing my best but haven’t found a new job yet.

I have noticed that since I can’t afford to pay for things I use to, they are getting more passive aggressive towards me and making it seem like I am failing in all aspects of my life. her adults.

Now I am thinking of looking for a job in the city I grew up in and move to be closer with my friends and people that are in my corner.

Does it make me the Asshole if I go back in this promise? Or does circumstances of being jobless override it?