Hi, so I have one of those rechargeable wand vibrators and love it as a whole, but I feel like I’m just desensitised to it now. I’m looking for a new one but have no idea what to get. The clot sucker ones sound good but I don’t want to waste money for not much oomf in return. Thanks

  • MaybeALittleBitWeird@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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    22 days ago

    Obligatory “Not a woman, but” comment incoming. If you’re very happy with your current vibrator it may be less that you’re desensitized and more that you’re bored with masturbation in general. If that’s the case you’ll probably find yourself in a similar position pretty soon after getting your new toy so keep that in mind as you’re looking.

    Do you have any interests or kinks that you could introduce into your routine that may provide for a bit more mental or intellectual stimulation perhaps?

    I’ll leave the actual toy recommendations to the experts, however my partner really enjoyed getting a Rabbit style vibrator that provides clitoral and g-spot stimulation at the same. It did take a bit to find the right shape that worked for her though because some were quite uncomfortable with the insertion.

    • DumptruckMisses@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
      5·
      22 days ago

      thanks for the response , i was worried someone was going to suggest this and id have to face the reality that toys arent enough anymore haha. i was considering getting one of those machines but they are out of my price range.

      I cheat alot when my partner is away so half the time i have other options, but sometimes i just want some me time.

      thanks for your suggestion though, i fear you may be right.

      • MaybeALittleBitWeird@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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        22 days ago

        id have to face the reality that toys arent enough anymore haha

        I didn’t mean to cause you any distress 😅 The reality is though that doing the same thing the same way gets boring eventually. Sometimes just taking a break for a while can be enough to help reignite your enjoyment of something in the long run though.

        I don’t have one but I’ve also looked into machines before(I’m bi) and chatted with people who have them. You can find some decent ones in the $(USD)50-100 range, but you’re usually sacrificing the stability of the machine as it thrusts in that price range which can cause issues at higher speeds so it’s a tradeoff.

        I hope you find something that works for you.

        • DumptruckMisses@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
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          22 days ago

          no its ok im being dramatic!

          Taking a break isnt an option, im constantly horny and playing with myself so it’s borderline addiction now haha

          ill have a look into that, thanks for messaging though