• PugJesus@lemmy.worldOPM
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      They/them is not used exclusively to refer to neuter things, so enbies not being gender neutral is irrelevant here. ‘They’ is a useful and pre-existing catch-all.

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        they/them is what I hope we all eventually settle on as standard for NB gender identities.

        This part is the one I’m referring to. I’m not opposed to they/them — it’s good, but I don’t think it’s fair to reduce enbies to just “they/them”.

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          … why?

          Is that any more absurd than “reducing males to he/him” or “reducing females to she/her”?

          It’s language, not a campaign medal. You don’t need a separate example for every instance.

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            19 hours ago

            The whole point of pronouns, I would argue, is to not need a separate set for every instance.

            Otherwise you may as well just use Dan/Dan/Dan’s/Danself conjugated for each name.

            Pronouns:

            • Are (generally) shorter than names, because there’s less need for them to be unique and they’re used more frequently.

            • Can be used even when you don’t know specifics about a person or object, or they don’t want to give out their name.

            • Everyone knows how to conjugate them, so once you know someone is a ‘they’, you can readily extrapolate to them, their, theirs.

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            17 hours ago

            Well exactly because they/them is a catch-all and there aren’t just he/hims and she/hers

            let enbies express themselves too!