It seems there’s a lot of issues with planning an orgy, especially if you don’t know all the participants.

A lot of people opt out the last 24 hrs, several are either nervous or creepy, and many (especially ciswomen) seem to feel unsafe.

I’m thinking a lot of this is due to orgies being poorly planned and hosted.

What are your best tips for a good orgy? What do you appreciate at one?

  • deezcashews@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    15·
    3 days ago
    • Gatorade
    • Condoms
    • Wet wipes
    • Towels
    • Hand sanitizer
    • Lube
    • Candles
    • Puppy blankets
    • A good playlist
    • A nice charcuterie board
    • Ice packs
    • Heating pads
    • Karate lessons
    • Mouthwash
    • Dental floss
    • Viagra
    • A referee
    • Steel chairs and ladders
    • Rope
    • scarabine@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
      7·
      3 days ago
      • Karate lessons
      • Steel chairs and ladders

      For a second there I thought you didn’t know what you were talking about. Everyone always forgets these!

    • Mickey7@lemmy.worldEnglish
      4·
      3 days ago

      “Karate lessons” - LOL

      Orgies are too complicated. Too many people feel left out of the fun if they are not getting fucked. Spouse Swapping is easier with only 4 people needed to reach agreement on pre conditions.