Yes, the entitled assholes who think because they have kids they deserve special privileges, sometimes even above other people with kids. I’m not talking about all parents. Thought that was pretty clear with the parenthetical, but guess I have to spell it out. That’s ok.
If someone is normal about it, doesn’t abuse their status as parents for special accommodations, I’ve got no problem with it beyond management being wildly unfair. But literally everywhere I’ve worked has had a handful of people who demand flexibility to pick their kids up, frequently take days off due to their kid needing something, etc. leaving everyone else to pick up their slack. Then you find out later they went to the spa or some shit. If they don’t get the vacation time they want, they complain about how their kids need it so much, and try to talk childless coworkers into covering for them.
You seem to encounter these “entitled assholes” frequently - perhaps you are too broadly applying your lens, and even if not you may want to be careful using it in other circumstances where it may not carry over or be used to take rights away from workers
That’s what happens when you work shitty jobs, man. Idk what to tell you. You end up with shitty coworkers who don’t get fired for being shitty.
I’m just going to ignore the implication that I’m overreacting to my own lived experience and the downsides that have come with it. I’ve only had to miss out on tons of family stuff because of it with people who are dead now, as a result of entitled parents throwing their kids around as an excuse, so…
Okay. I stand by what I wrote. You are lashing out at people online (many of your other comments are needless hostile on lemme) and you mentioned the lack of proper grieving. It is clear to me you are dealing with unresolved emotions.
Understood - but every comment by the poster was fuck’n openly hostile (at me, at the anecdotal cited coworkers, and at fellow imaginary workers who may or may not justifiable needs for flexibility - of course the poster is the one who has a right to judge)
I stand by comments but doubt they were internalized for any growth or self reflection (but one can hope)
Yes, the entitled assholes who think because they have kids they deserve special privileges, sometimes even above other people with kids. I’m not talking about all parents. Thought that was pretty clear with the parenthetical, but guess I have to spell it out. That’s ok.
If someone is normal about it, doesn’t abuse their status as parents for special accommodations, I’ve got no problem with it beyond management being wildly unfair. But literally everywhere I’ve worked has had a handful of people who demand flexibility to pick their kids up, frequently take days off due to their kid needing something, etc. leaving everyone else to pick up their slack. Then you find out later they went to the spa or some shit. If they don’t get the vacation time they want, they complain about how their kids need it so much, and try to talk childless coworkers into covering for them.
Those entitled asshole.
You seem to encounter these “entitled assholes” frequently - perhaps you are too broadly applying your lens, and even if not you may want to be careful using it in other circumstances where it may not carry over or be used to take rights away from workers
That’s what happens when you work shitty jobs, man. Idk what to tell you. You end up with shitty coworkers who don’t get fired for being shitty.
I’m just going to ignore the implication that I’m overreacting to my own lived experience and the downsides that have come with it. I’ve only had to miss out on tons of family stuff because of it with people who are dead now, as a result of entitled parents throwing their kids around as an excuse, so…
Have a nice day.
Therapy may help if you are in a US state where there is sufficient health care coverage
Have a nice day as well
Oh fuck right off with that shit. You don’t know shit about me beyond this limited exchange.
Okay. I stand by what I wrote. You are lashing out at people online (many of your other comments are needless hostile on lemme) and you mentioned the lack of proper grieving. It is clear to me you are dealing with unresolved emotions.
I’m not your punching bag
You’re coming across as condescending whether that’s your intention or not.
Understood - but every comment by the poster was fuck’n openly hostile (at me, at the anecdotal cited coworkers, and at fellow imaginary workers who may or may not justifiable needs for flexibility - of course the poster is the one who has a right to judge)
I stand by comments but doubt they were internalized for any growth or self reflection (but one can hope)