Referencing your edit: I don’t think it’s a widely used term tbh and if it is I’m willing to bet it means something far different. I was specifically just using the post title lmao.
Fair enough and sometimes that’s just life. I mostly commented that because of your “just the tip” comment because to me that speaks at least to a certain level of willingness but maybe a lack of preparation in the end. For someone who’s inexperienced it takes a LOT of warm up, like on the order of hours, to ensure it’s a pleasurable experience because in the end you need to be relaxed for it to feel good which can be tough if the sensations are new and you’re in pain.
I think 2 of 3 were nervousness issues, despite both of our attempts to calm nerves and warm up everything. The 3rd was just you small of an asshole, definitely. I though I was gonna tear her open and tbh it hurt me too. And she was def relaxed lol. She was more disappointed than me. Turns out there IS such a thing as too small of a butthole. She showed me her poops lmao they looked like spaghetti noodles compared to mine… TMI, I know, haha.
Yikes, that sounds rough and definitely like there was a medical issue at play. As someone who’s girthy I know the struggle and just know I’m rooting for you on number 4 friend!
Referencing your edit: I don’t think it’s a widely used term tbh and if it is I’m willing to bet it means something far different. I was specifically just using the post title lmao.
Fair enough and sometimes that’s just life. I mostly commented that because of your “just the tip” comment because to me that speaks at least to a certain level of willingness but maybe a lack of preparation in the end. For someone who’s inexperienced it takes a LOT of warm up, like on the order of hours, to ensure it’s a pleasurable experience because in the end you need to be relaxed for it to feel good which can be tough if the sensations are new and you’re in pain.
I think 2 of 3 were nervousness issues, despite both of our attempts to calm nerves and warm up everything. The 3rd was just you small of an asshole, definitely. I though I was gonna tear her open and tbh it hurt me too. And she was def relaxed lol. She was more disappointed than me. Turns out there IS such a thing as too small of a butthole. She showed me her poops lmao they looked like spaghetti noodles compared to mine… TMI, I know, haha.
Yikes, that sounds rough and definitely like there was a medical issue at play. As someone who’s girthy I know the struggle and just know I’m rooting for you on number 4 friend!
i mean not ACTUAL spaghetti… lmao and thanks