• GottaKnowYourCHKN@lemmy.world
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        Lesbians aren’t toys to play with when you’re bored.

        I’m a lesbian. I’ve had times where I’m hella single and don’t go to dudes because I’m bored or lonely. If I did, I would consider myself pan/bi.

        You’re bi, just say you’re bi. You can’t be a certain percentage of something like that.

        • NιƙƙιDιɱҽʂ@lemmy.world
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          1 month ago

          Nah, I think I’ll identify how I please.

          Lesbians aren’t toys to play with when you’re bored.

          I’m fully aware of this, having been the one toyed with before.

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            What bothers me, is that this creates this idea for some men that they can “change” or convince lesbians. If you’re like “Oh I’m a lesbian, but I have a boyfriend.” You’re going to make some men think they just have to ask enough and that lesbians just “need a good d” to turn straight again.

            Why lesbian over bi, if I may ask? Do you find yourself moving between the two labels when it’s convenient or would be awkward to say? Like, if you meet his family-- do you tell them you’re actually a lesbian?

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              No, I totally get that, and I hate that I “prove” that idea in any form, because it’s horseshit. I hear that shit all the time and frankly, it’s disgusting.

              I identify more with lesbian, because quite frankly I’m not physically attracted to guys like…at all. I just happen to really be attached to this one guy in particular. Outside of him, I’ve never had a guy as a romantic partner, and should we break up at some point, I don’t see myself doing it again.

              Regarding his family, I probably wouldn’t say anything at all about my sexuality haha