Just a sanity check here but… yall ever been mid conversation with someone and confused that they’ve forgotten a thing you talked about… until you realize that previous conversation took place entirely in your head?

  • purplexed@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    Yeah that happens to me a fair bit.

    The other one I found myself in, is that something they say reminds me of A, and I think it would be funny if B, so I jump to conclusion C, and then try to make a joke about D, completely skipping past and not even mentioning everything that transpired in my head that lead to E.

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      11 months ago

      When i try to describe my train of thought that led to the funny thing it often takes too long to keep any kind of momentum and everything falls flat…

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      11 months ago

      This happens with me and my on-the-autism-spectrum friend who also does it. We somehow managed to have a lot of the same traits while being entirely differently neurodivergent.

      Our conversations are very ehm… ‘dynamic’ as we have to constantly loop back to point B that got lost somewhere in the path to point E and also have you considered point M?

      Nobody else can follow the train of thought.

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    11 months ago

    Maybe not so much that I remember saying things that I didn’t, but more like:

    I need to tell them X, Y, and Z.

    “Y!” 🤦🏻‍♂️

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    11 months ago

    I go through a ton of hypothetical conversations like that in my head. So far I was always able to discern between real and made up though as far as I can tell.

  • Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    11 months ago

    I can’t “imagine” conversations in that way, so it’s not something I’ve experienced

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    11 months ago

    I often have dreams about having conversations with peoole I know, often abiut really mundane stuff. It’s very annoying, because my memory isn’t great i genuinely struggle at times to figure out if it happened for real or was just a dream. Often I realise because it was impossible, like I’ll be telling my parter that I chatted to X about something and they’ll ask “when did you see X?” and I’ll realise that I haven’t seen them in weeks so I can’t have had that conversation. It’s even come up at work and I’ve had to check with coworkers, “have we spoken about this already?” (although I try and keep the “or did I just dream it” to my self).