• FoolsQuartz@lemmynsfw.comOP
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      22 天前

      I’ve always thought dom sounds tricky to agree groundwork with. It might be fun but I doubt i would find someone who’s idea of it/taste in domination is exactly the same as mine.

      Speaking on the master-servant stuff specifically, it seems tricky because what if one partner wants to do it all the time and the other doesn’t? You could just “go back to normal,” but I bet having treated your partner like a servant would change the way you see them a little bit.

      Since BDSM is related, I’ll mention that I don’t like a lot of the toys involved in BDSM at all, but bondage seems okay. But I also don’t think it’s necessary, and I want my partner to be enthusiastic enough about vanilla sex rather than needing to engage in these kinks. Hope that’s not considered an ignorant view of kinks.

  • AccoSpoot@lemmynsfw.com
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    23 天前

    I mean honestly all pornography right. I don’t mean that, like, sex is something I love watching but doing, but pornographic sex is different to real sex, in that it is way more of a performance, which seems just unsustainable to keep up in reality.

    • RepressedLemmier@lemmynsfw.com
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      22 天前

      I typicaly don’t even like watching it. It is a bunch of people slapping genitails awkwardly, who aren’t even allowed to enjoy themselves properly most of the time.

      It is just a (literal) pain in the ass job.

  • PM_us_kinky_comments@lemmynsfw.com
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    23 天前

    Really like to watch some gangbang scenes, like all holes and hands filled, but we’re monogamous and sure of it so it’s not something we’d enjoy practicing

  • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    21 天前

    Nothing.

    I am autistically straightforward and consistent.

    I don’t watch anything I wouldn’t enjoy doing.