• AbouBenAdhem@lemmy.world
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    6 months ago

    I think they’re terms men often apply to whichever figure in the household represents the greatest constraint on their actions (or the person to whom they most defer).

    If they’re married, that’s their spouse, but if they’re living with their parents in a traditional male-dominated household, it’s their father.

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      6 months ago

      Funny, I’ve always thought of them as terms of honour. At least that’s why I called my father old man. He called his captain that back when he was a sailor.

      edit: I guess it’s a way to acknowledge seniority.